Mom passed over last night.
James sorry to hear about your mother. This sounds cruel but I think you have to ask your mother if she want's one . My mother at around 90 said she did not want one,she just wanted to go without. Unfortunately when that situation come up my brother told the doctors to do it without consulting me or my sister. My mother got out of surgery she was mad at my brother after she found out. So then she went to a nursing home and never a day went by without reminding us that this was not her wish. She had no life in the four years in that nursing home. I felt so sorry for her. She passed at 95 . I know it's a tough decision and know what you are going through.