Thanks for posting all of the ratio information! I have a 3 speed w/overdrive that I just put in my '58 Impala, behind a 348 with 3x2's. I checked the differential code, and it looks like I have 3:36 gears. I used the chart from this website to read the casting code on the rear end.
http://www.348-409.com/differential.html
I had been thinking that I should look for a 3:55 or 4:11 rear end to work better with the overdrive, but from what you have found, sounds like the 3:36 should be fine for cruising. I haven't had my car on the road yet, so I can't say how it works, but I should be road ready this fall.
Here's a website I had found with some good info on the 3 speed overdrive:
http://www.classictruckshop.com/clubs/earlyburbs/projects/t85n/rebuild.htm Somewhere I had downloaded pdfs of the manuals for the Borg Warner overdrive (operators, service, troubleshooting,) and I can email them if needed.
I still need to wire my overdrive, since the transmission didn't have the wiring when I bought it from the junkyard. I've been just driving around the yard with the lockout cable engaged to keep it out of overdrive. Are you using the stock type of wiring, with the kickdown switch? Is the switch below the gas pedal, or mounted on the carb?