Aubrey
My thoughts are with you too Aubrey. The loss of a brother is hard but it seems worse when he is too young.
You have all kinds of memories of growing up but you are really fortunate that you and your brother both had an interest in cars. You can realte back to all the things you did together with the cars and engines. That will go a long way in the healing process.
Be sure to take care of yourself in this healing period.
Phil